outspokn.

“Life is 10% what happens and 90% how we react.”

  • The one lacking the clever title…

    Well…. Have I been on one HELL of a ride since 2017 and ‘B’. My speculating about whether or not that person was a bad idea, yeah that was me saying I know that I don’t deserve this but I’m doing it anyway because I am in to much emotional pain to care… even if Read more

  • Accommodating & Accommodating…

      Until you are no longer yourself. Is what I am doing congruent with who I am? Am I trying to make it work? Sounds easier then it is. Read more

  • a long time coming.

    2023. I need to manifest some positive shit because WOW, I hope that this is the last of this type of suffering I experience. I’m worn down.It feels like my resilience is lost. My best friend for 37 years isn’t at all who I thought she was.I have to tell myself, there’s something wrong. There Read more

  • Things Fall Apart

    A book I read in university by China Achebe. Also, how I feel about my life this present moment in time. My life is falling apart. I know I have a lot to be grateful for but I am suffering financially to the point where I am worried about my ability to take care of Read more

  • B.

    I’m not sure yet what is the meaning or lesson behind this relationship. Everyone comes into your life for a reason, season or lifetime, right? Maybe you’re here to teach me something…. The psychic has told me to stay away from you, my best friend thinks you treat me like shit and your ex says Read more

  • Listing.

    Everyone talks about the idea of writing down three things you are grateful for each day before you go to sleep. Has anyone tried this? I have in the past – inconsistently albeit. But this concept has me thinking. What am I grateful for? My family even though we are not all in touch. My Read more